what to do with our hearts . .. .

". . . have patience with everything that remains unsolved

in your heart. Try to love the questions themselves, like

locked rooms and like books written in a foreign language.

Do not now look for the answers. They cannot now be given

to you because you could not live them. It is a question of  

experiencing everything.  At present you need to live the

question. Perhaps you will gradually, without even noticing it,

find yourself experiencing the answer, some distant day."

 

                       R.M.Rilke